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Originally Posted by rosy60s1
Dear Maggie & Lou Lou :
Thanks for your time , I visited the (pregnancy loss) forum here as Slobin advised , and crying all the time ,
It's my fault that I didn't think of having a baby earlier...
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Rosy,
Don't you dare blame yourself for this terrible tragedy!! Absolutly not!!! You didn't have a baby earlier because it wasn't the right time for you for whatever reasons. We can't live our lives with regrets about IF or we'll all go insane. You musn't have been ready earlier. While I don't believe that this is what God has planned for you (m/c), I do beleive that something had gone terribly wrong and your body was smart enough to know not to keep moving forward. Who knows what was going on in there. They usually say that we m/c or have chemical pregnancies because the cells we're not dividing correctly or there were bad cells forming.
Please don't blame yourself. That's basically all I'm trying to say....
xo lori