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Yes, we have given it a lot of thought and we have decided not to tell anyone for now. We do plan to tell our child at some point in the future and then they can decide who they want to tell/or not. I am not ashamed of the decision or anything, in fact I am very confident that this how DH and I are suppose to have children. I want my child to feel confident and complete so I do plan to be up front with them in proper stages according to age. DH and I even went to a Reproductive Theripst and talked things through to make sure we were on the same level and felt good about conceiving through DS. We came out of the visit feeling confident and more sure that we were doing the right thing. The RT even showed us a couple children's books that would help to explain to the child about the way they were conceived- they were really neat! Anyways, it's really nobody elses business except ours and our child's so we will just play it by ear and work it in as we feel fit into our child's life. I just hope that this works and we are able to have concieve and bring up a little blessing in this world together, and hoping the same for all of you trying so hard for the same gift!
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