[jmcrane]

My DH and I are also using donor sperm.. But in the beginning my DH told him mother..yes told his mother and she wanted us to use his brother. She said that he would not mind at all... Okay she just took if for granted that he would not mind and did not ask me if that was okay with me.. So there started the WW111 of the Crane Family.. So then when I told her how I felt she said that was fine but the child would not be welcome into her family... UGGGGGG...
So I said that was fine too. and My Dh stood behind me totally.. What a shock..
But know going thru 2 iui's already, remarkable that she calls me everyday and asks when do I go back and can she go on the day it is done.. I said no... Yes I know that is being mean but hey I can not forget..

So if no I mean when it works, I will then decide how to tell my child when the time is right. My DH does not want us to tell the child.. But I feel like I have to be honest but it will be at a certain age that I am comfortable with it.. And I am going to put my foot down and handle his mother so she will keep her big mouth shut...