[cday500]

I am new to this forum and have read many of the postings to see the support is wonderful to each other at this site.

I am 31 and found out at age 21 I had severly blocked tubes (and previous miscarriage) and would require IVF. That round of treatments and numerous failures eventually ended my marriage. The ex found someone who could give him the children he wanted....ouchh!

But years have gone by and I had come to terms with "I can't have children" as it was easier on me emotionally to say than go through the pain of explaining everything again.

I have a wonderful man in my life who understands (to the best of his ability right now) the struggles we will have to bear children. We begin the evaluation process again in a few weeks to see what treatments are out there for us.

I am scared, nervous, anxious, and already emotional just thinking about the appointment with the IF clinic. It brings back a lot of pain and let down from the past.

I realized from the last time many years ago that I cannot do this on my own and that women like you are a God send for the emotions that only women encountering this pain can feel. I welcome and appreciate your threads and will continue to keep you posted.