I, too, hate when people say that to me. How do they know the complete wrong things to say. I know they are trying to be helpful and supportive but they need to stop and look at things from my prospective. I absolutely hate with a flaming purple passion when people say to me "oh you are still young", "it will happen when it's supposed to" and my all time fav "go home, have a glass of wine and relax, it will happen when you stop trying so hard!" HOW THE HECK DO YOU STOP TRYING SO HARD??????? sorry .. that just really gets to me (could you tell?). My best friend just got married 2 weeks ago and she doesnt want to start a family right away, she still wants to finish school and establish herself in the career she wants. The most common question she gets right now is "So when are you gonna fill up that house with kids?" "When are you gonna start a family?" She gets just as frustrated as I do. I have to say though, she is super supportive of me and gets just as mad at people for their retarded comments towards me and IF. Hubby is pretty good too! Sorry this got so long, guess I had alot to say!
Good luck to all the 2WWers and CONGRATS to all the
!! Keep your chin up and keep hoping! We will all achieve our hopes and dreams!