Wow, I read everyone's post and I can sympathize with you all. Unfortunately it's true, women who could careless about having a child, gets them by the dozen it seems and us women who would make wonderful, caring and loving parents and actually WANT our kids....have problems.
I feel for us all! I have not gotten to the point where hearing or seeing other people have babies bothers me and I hope I don't get there.
I've learned that in the process you have to remain as calm and centered as ever. People have no clue what you are feeling. My husband says he understands, but he doesn't. Throughout the process I've wanted to choke him about 50 times b/c he doesn't seem sensitive at times. Then you have family and friends constantly grilling you about when you're going to get pregnant and all you can do is smile and say "God willing, hopefully soon!" I've gotten to the point where when they ask me, I ask them back and it usually shuts them up.
I'm glad I found this forum and i'm looking forward to sharing the happy, good, bad and ugly with you all.