I agree with both what the ladies here said and what your DH has said. My DH had vericocele surgery too and we didn't see an improvement on his counts for oh about 6-8 months, then he went from 8 mill to 16 mill at his latest SA. It will take time, it takes 90 days for a new batch of sperm (I remember them telling us that!
) to reform and get themselves ready to go. Hang in there!
I also agree that his timing was quite off, as to tell you he wasn't feeling the IVF.How unfortunate it is that men feel so upset when they can't fix something on their own. My DH is much the same way. Hang in there and talk, that's what we've found got us through the two years of TTC, the vericocele surgery, the clomid, the unanswered questions, the loss of our first pregnancy. Keep in tune to each other, and reassure one another too!! Best wishes Sweetie!