Hello Rexe,
its nice to know that you feel for your patner and am trying to support him. You need to be in his face as much as you can, assuring him that YOU are ok. His biggest hurt is not to make You a mum, and that desire burns him alive. He sees it as a failure, inability to start a family, His hidden feelings are there and only your interaction and support will create emotional stability for him.
i am\was married 7 years but marriage broke down due to me being infertile (no sperm-no options and my wife not being able to except or understand what had happened.
We had other issues but all of them ended up with a issue of not having kids.
she dissassociated her self from reality and focused on her hurt. just hers, not realising that i was freaked out, and unable to function or underdstand the condition, i attended the hospital appointments alone and afraid and would come out as if i was in another reality, a dream. Both sides Hurt, but unfortunately only one side is normally the cause and that person carries a guilt that is so unfair that only love can sooth it given the chance.
Regards
Kumar
me36, DW30
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