[Jacklyn]

Sorry, to hear this, Sarah. I guess sometimes people take some time to come to terms with the fact that if they want a baby they need to either go for a treatment or adopt.
I go through that every month, like one month I am totally against IVF and then I feel that we should give it a shot and then I am all for researching adoption, but am scared.
Even my husband is not so keen on adoption at this point and he does not want to put me through IVF either coz its too invasive.
Of course, we are all hoping that we get pregnant and we do not need to deal with such issues, but not sure what the future has in store for us. (By "we", I mean, everyone going through IF)
I would say give yourself and your husband some time and hopefully you will find a resolution. And of course, pray for the best and for God to show you the way.
It might help to talk to some people who have adopted. I think what your husband is feeling is a very "guy" way of thinking, but he might change his mind if he's able to talk to someone who has already done this.
<<Hugs>>
- Jacklyn