I am sorry that u r in such a predicament,but u know what..this is so typical of so many guys..even my DH is against adoption and though he is ready for IVF he is not keen on taking too many attempte..I had to peater him ..show how much it meant to me to have a baby and do some of other "guy melting" ricks to finally make him ready for the IVF but no adoption still...Guys are a difficult nut to crack
.May be ur DH needs some more time..give him some and may b u can finally convince him.And may b u dont need either IVF or adoption ..lets hope u have a baby without any IVF
All the best!!!!