The thing that really kills me is when someone says, "Now it's your turn to have a baby." Both of my sister-in-laws are in their 40s and had their only children (they both only wanted one) in their late 30's. They got pregnant the first cycle they tried, one didn't have a single glitch in her pregnancy. The other miscarried the first pregnancy early, then got pregnant the very next cycle and carried it to term. It seems so unfair that people can wait until it's convenient for them to get pregnant and have no trouble, and those of us who start early have so many problems! Ugh!
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