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I dealt with primary infertility -- meaning couldn't have one child. I started this process saying I would never do IVF -- only IUIs. Then I got into IVF and said I would never use a donor egg. Well as I type this I am finally pregnant having used a donor egg.

My point is even when you say what your limits are you never know.

I think it is really insensative when people say at least you have one. As someone stated earlier IF hurts whether or not its your first or fifth. Having a child(or children) is something everyone should be able to experience as many times as they care to.