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My husband was absolutely against going back when our first ivf failed, then we had embies frozen so he said "Ok, since we have them we may as well give FET a shot." Then when we m/c that one, he said no way, he couldn't take that anymore. Well low and behold he asked me if I think I could stand another round of injections, I told him for him absolutely. So we went for fresh #2, that time poor egg quality and it failed with none left to freeze. So yet again he asked, so here we are gearing up for fresh #3, we truly believe third time will be a charm. But if not, I believe we will be going back again, we have already met our out of pocket max for the year, so I agree with him in saying why not go back. The only thing we have to pay for are the meds at this point. There is no limit on attempts as far as the insurance this year, but next year it may change, just like medication coverage did for this year, so we are going to use it while we can. We are seriously thinking about adopting even if we do get preggo with one biologically. We really feel adopted children are extra special because they are readily available to be a blessing for someone longing for a child. Once you sign the final adoption papers and consents (unlike ivf) you have your child to hold and love. With ivf, you sign and hope to have one. Good luck to everyone, whether they are continuing/ending their IF journey, or they are planning to adopt, both are very personal and can be very hard to deal with at times. God Bless.