After a a very long IVF road, we were blessed with a healthy baby boy late December.
Now comes the decision, what to do with all of the extras? At 40, I don't see us having any more, and storage is becoming expensive.
My doctor says they should probably be destroyed because new legislation makes donation hard -- but not impossible I would think. { I don't have all of the details yet}
I just think that there are so many people who want children and would make wonderful parents but don't because of financial or other reasons. And it's a shame for a child not to experience the love of that kind of parent ----especially in a world where teenagers have babies and throw them out in the garbage. Or regular adoption is even more costly. All of these organizations make exhorbitants amount of money, while we find ourselves mortgaged or in debt just to have a child to love.
Does anybody have any ideas or informationm PLEASE I am all ears ---- adoption, donation maybe even research to help someone else--- I just don't know how to go about it. All I know is that I definately don't want to destroy them.
Thanks and God Bless,
Michelle {Pennsylvania}
