[sunny72]

Okay my friends, I'm having a hard time trying to make a decision. I've probably mentioned that my family overseas want to have a family reunion maybe in Hawaii (half way point for everybody). It's been over 7 years since we were all together, sibling 'n all. I already postponed a potential trip in September, and now they are considering November. There's really no pressure, but the pressure I am putting on myself to please everyone, and that I really do miss then all and want to see them. Selfishly, I wish it could still be September now, but of course if can't be at short notice. Afterall, the world doesn't always revolve around me.

However, I have this burning desire to try the FET in September. I don't need to explain to you guys, that every month since like a year when TTC, so waiting until after the potential Hawaii trip is almost unfathomable. I said to DH that we could do both. If we're lucky that it works and I fall pregnant, we could still fly to Hawaii, I think plenty of people fly in the first trimester. But he's against it. He says that he's in the radiation business, and he thinks after all this, we shouldn't consider doing a longhaul flight etc..

Is he just being a party-pooper, or being the sensible one. Darn it, I want to do both things NOW. I'm not patient at the best of times, and they are both very important. I told my sister last night that maybe we could book flights but cancel last minute if we get pregnant, and they can still all hang out together, but now I can't find reasonable flights that you can cancel/change.

Okay, sorry for the long story about a trivial matter. Any thoughts???