Stephanie- what ever you do, do not think that the IF is your fault. No one asks for this. I am sorry that you are having marital difficulties. You really should try to get him into couples counseling before you continue trying. I am sure that he doesn't 'resent' you, but is probably very fustrated and doesn't know how to express it. Still, it is no reason to lash out at you like that. I really hope that the 2 of you can work this out. It is bad enough that we have to deal with IF, but you really need each other if you are going to make this work.
