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Stephanie-
I would also suggest couples counseling. Sometimes you can yell and scream yourselves into circles if there is no mediator involved. It helped DH and I, but sometimes we get off track and we need to go back for a "tune-up". Resentment is toxic. Dh has to know that IF is not your fault. This is something you both signed up for when you got married and you need to stick toegther through this journey, however long you decide to do it. You will be parents no matter what, someway if you want it badly enough.
I sympathize with you because DH and I have had those exact fights. They are not fun. Infertility can consume a person, especially a woman. Maybe it's time to take a break and concentrate on your marriage. DH and I have been doing that for the last three months and it is definitely worth it. Good luck.
hugs, Susan
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