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Definately take the time to think about this... I had to do the same. My best friend told me about her pregnancy a while ago now (he is 11 mos old now) and I did decide to be in the room with her -although it ended up being a C-section.... Not saying that this is what you should feel, but I felt that at times I was being very selfish and that I shouldn't be, but at the same time I was so hurt that she was with someone for 3 months at the most, got pregnant when it had been 3 yrs since TTC for my husband and I. I did decide to be there because I knew I was going to love her son no matter what and if I were in her shoes, I would want her to be supportive of me as well (since the father had decided to dash), afterall she was very supportive of me and my infertility. Good luck, and whatever you decide is going to be in YOUR best interest!! =)
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