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Old 11-23-2007, 10:39 PM
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Though i have never been in such a situation but this is really a tough decision that you have to take! Had i been you i would have decided against it if there were enough people beside her side at the time of birth. It is not necessary to hurt your feelings...is it...but in extreme cases where the lady does not have anyone by her side it would be an apt thing to be at birth for support simply on humanitarian grounds. That's what i think, you think wisely and take your call. Good luck!
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ME: 32
DH: 37
Married since eight years. Unexplained infertility...
One doxy baby: Beetle

Three IUIs in 2007 - BFN
IVF (ICSI) in June.
First Beta - 11th July - 72.38
Second Beta - 220.30
2nd u/s - 4th Aug - Saw my angel's heartbeat 7w4d160bpm
3rd emerg. u/s - 24th Aug
- Saw the baby dancing 139bpm. Low lying placenta diagnosed.
4th u/s - 8th Oct - Placenta moved up.
3D and Anomaly scan - 23rd Oct - Everything measures perfect. Baby Hb: 148bpm.
Cervical cerclage - 2nd Nov - Successful.

Eva born on 29th Feb via C-scetion. She weighed 7 lb 2.6 oz (3.25kg) at birth and was 19.6 inches long!

~ 7 lb 14 oz and 21.2 at six week appointment. Vaccinated.
~ 10th week vaccination complete. Measured 9 lb 7.6 oz and 23.3 inches.

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