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Understanding ~ feeling upset
Dear friends,....just thought if I can understand my friend better by posting this thread...I have just given to a baby mid june, and I have this good friend that avoided me and treating me very cold ever since I am pregnant. Recently she has hinted me to stop all communications with her and give up this friendship becos I have a kid and I dun understand her no matter how.
A little background on my friend...she has been married earlier than me and has been planning for a baby for years, but no valid. Previously she had an abortion before married and she has problem conceiving since then.
I am feeling upset as i don't think I have done anything or quarrel with her, but its just all of a sudden when i invited her to my baby shower that I realise she's been cutting all communications with me.
And this friend have been with me for years. I feel unfair at the same time having a friend to cut me out with the fact of me having a baby.
Would be great if someone can enlighten me or advice me....is this the end of the friendship? *sigh*
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