Hello everyone

My Name is Kim Malay and I am the new Moderator for this Forum. I look forward to getting to know all of you and supporting you through your journeys. To just give you a little background. I am 35, I have a 16 yr old daughter(next week actually) from a previous relationship and am married to my dear husband for 5 years and actually have been with him for 11 yrs. We have been ttc since we got married, did 2 IUI's and 1 IVF and then called it quits. I have always been interested in adoption because my parents were foster parents when I was young, but it took us a while to get to the point of looking into adoption. Now that we have made that decision I know it was the right path for us. I am a firm believe that adoption is not the 2nd choice it is another way of finding your child. Love is thicker than blood and that is what matters most. We have chosen to adopt through the state and are currently waiting for placement and actively inquiring. I am the list owner of a very active secondary infertility group and hope that I can be there for you and provide you with the same safe haven we have created on that list. Please feel free to contact me anytime if you have any question or comments at malayklan@earthlink.net