Hi! I am new to this forum- It is wonderful to see the subjects I care about- like taking care of yourself, and your relationships in a fertility forum.
DH and I had a serious heart to heart about the state of our marriage on the eve of another round of letrozole and what would have been the first IUI; and we decided to put it on hold after some real concerns about our marriage came to the surface. DH actually felt he would want to leave me because of our problems. He wants to see if we can change things and heal our marriage-
honestly putting everything fertility thing on hold and refocusing on our communication, our commitment and just having fun together feels great!
i am still a little sad when i see all the pregnant women walking by ( i work in maternal/child health!) but i am very satisfied that I am making this sane decision.
already stress is relieved between us- ironically the sex is better already so maybe we will get pregnant the old fashioned way.
anyone else had an experience like i am having- being on the verge of divorce or divorced in the midst of trying to get pregnant? any advice? I have to admit, it will be very hard to not try and get pregnant- i am 36 years old, and who knows how long we will want to take a break from IF.