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Old 12-16-2007, 08:43 AM
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Infertility can definitely cause a rift in any relationship. Sometimes it's the make or break to the relationship as I've found. But from time to time it is good to reevaluate the sitaution and determine what is most important to you both. I don't know your story or situation but we suffered with male factor and DH always said he'd allow divorce so that I could go on and remarry and have a baby of my own, he knew how much I wanted a family. But I told him I married him for the person he is, the man I love, and not for his sperm. If we couldn't have a child of our own we had other options to consider. We took a couple of breaks (including this year) to regroup and take back control of ourselves - mentally, physically and emotionally. So best of luck to you both in your time of refocusing, may you have a natural miracle to top it all off!
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DH - 27 (low count, low motility, morphology)
TTC since December 2002
3 failed IUIs, 1 failed IVF
TTC Naturally in 2007 (Fertility Blend)
March 2007 - ectopic
July 07-March 08 Ethan Matthew Edens born 3/17/08 via c-section
6:07 p.m. 8 lbs 7.5 ouncs 21 inches
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