Thank You!! All of your responses feel so supportive and have given me food for thought.
Can I tell you a confusing turn of events- DH and I were watching 'Knocked Up' last night and I made a joke about how because we are taking a break from ttc I could enjoy alcohol, bad foods, caffeine etc.-
his response was "what do you mean we are taking a break from ttc?"
wow- apparently we ARE on the same page about trying to heal emotionally, spiritually and in our relationship- BUT NOT that this would include taking a break from ttc!
to me it is insane to try and conceive when there are real problems in our marriage- things I want to focus on rather than my somewhat obsessive focus on ttc.
of course I am worried about how long a break to take (how would I know it was time to try again?) and biggest worry that I have limited chances that decrease sharply at my age (I turn 37 in 3 months)-
so confused! and now we are arguing again- not about ttc but still-
confused and depressed! any advice?
