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Originally Posted by jenedens6102
Infertility can definitely cause a rift in any relationship. Sometimes it's the make or break to the relationship as I've found. But from time to time it is good to reevaluate the sitaution and determine what is most important to you both. I don't know your story or situation but we suffered with male factor and DH always said he'd allow divorce so that I could go on and remarry and have a baby of my own, he knew how much I wanted a family. But I told him I married him for the person he is, the man I love, and not for his sperm. If we couldn't have a child of our own we had other options to consider. We took a couple of breaks (including this year) to regroup and take back control of ourselves - mentally, physically and emotionally. So best of luck to you both in your time of refocusing, may you have a natural miracle to top it all off!
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Thanks for sharing your story of how taking a break was a good move for you and DH- although if you read my latest post you will see that my DH didn't have the same take on the 'changes' we are trying to allow to heal our relationship as including the 'change' of taking a break from ttc! now I am so confused, and on top of it all we had an argument last night that leaves me kind of hopeless. (I am apparently too negative and too unsupportive of the effort he is making to change).