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Originally Posted by Bri01
Honestly, I think that it is good to evaluate the state of your relationship, but on the other end of things if you put it off to long and then really can't achive a pregnany, where does that leave you? Infertility is stressfull for couples but you both have to desire it equally to work through those rough spots as there will many many ups and downs especially for you as the hormones kick in. It really is worth all of the rtouble at the end. I can speak from the standpoint of both undergoing IF for 3 years in the past prior to adopting my now 7 year old and recently going through IVF, a difficult pregnancy, and now having a 3 week old . Good luck!!!!!!!!!!!
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Thank you - if you read any of my replies in this thread you will learn I am now way too confused about what is going on now- apparently DH was not thinking the 'changes' we are trying to make included taking a break in ttc!!
on the one hand i want to jump back into ttc, and on the other, thanks to an argument with DH, I feel kind of hopeless about the state of our marriage. so ttc would not be the right thing to do.
and on top of it all i can't help but wonder how much of this tension is because we were ttc, and all the hormones, dashed hopes monthly, etc. ...so confused now. yikes.