I can totally understand where you're coming from. However, sometimes we have to put our feelings aside for the greater good. Going through infertility can be a very stressful thing. But like many said, they were actually happy to be there for the special occassion and it turned out to be a beautiful bonding experience.
Claim parenthood and believe in all your heart that you will be a mom one day. Know that you don't have to feel sad when to see other people having children b/c you will one day be in that delivery room as well and maybe your friend can return the favor. Like I said I know it's not easy, but this can end up being a blessing for you in the long run.
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Me - 38 (PCOS, Both tubes blocked)
DH - 37 (everything is fine)
1st IVF Dec - 2006 
2nd IVF March - 2007
3rd IVF
Nov 20 - 1 healthy egg transferred on 5th day
1st beta - 33  (Nov 30)
2nd beta - 47 (Dec 3)
3rd beta - 28 (Dec 5) numbers declining. Was told pregnancy is not viable.
 - 12/9
12/10 - spoke with Dr. and he said there's hope. starting another cycle. Dr. did internal sonogram, everything looks ok.
12/10 started Aygestin pills
12/12 starting Lupron
12/18 - still on Lupron also had hysterosonogram to check cervix...everything seems to be ok.
1/8/08 - started Follistim 300mcg 
1/18 - retrieval - 11 follicles
1/21 - embryo transfer 4 follies
2/1 
Taking a break until 9/15/08
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