[frymomma2b]

I know how you feel, I think we all do. I got pregnant in June (m/c) and my sister had been trying for 3 years (6 m/c) and she was like "whatever your lying" and then was "happy for us". i soon realized after i m/c what she really was feeling when i got the call from a friend a week after the m/c (by the way she is not married Way young and its her second). I quickly called my sis and told her that i was sorry for what i had done (i.e. not thinking of my bfp hurting her). No one understands the actuall extent of pain that the other feels until they experience it. They are just so over joyed that they have nothing else to talk about. Its not their fault and it is their right but it doesnt make it any easier for us. We will always face this and always have to put on a smile and nod then go home, crawl in bed, let dh hold us, and let it all out. Till we get our bfp's either for the first time or 5th and shout it from the roof tops!