Been there too many times!
Hey, it's true that no one really understands unless they've been there-which we hope they never are! My husbands young sister told me her good news the day before we were going to see a new fertility doc after 6 years off. I was so heartbroken and happy at the same time. She once told me the reason things weren't working out for us was that we were meant to raise children together and she wasn't there yet. I try to take her news as a sign that maybe our time is here finally! I am happy for her, but also very glad we are not living nearby to see/hear every little thing. It's just too painful. However, the next time we see her she will be 7 months pregnant!! She has already sent us ultrasound photos and a picture of her with a "baby belly" since she will be in a wedding in June. That one really hurt!! Hope this post helps you know you're not alone. Best wishes.
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