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Old 03-22-2008, 11:05 PM
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I only told them when .....

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Originally Posted by morelovetogive
So - after getting the news that you're going to have difficulty conceiving, have you told your families? How do you bring it up?

My husband is more private about this and would probably rather not tell anyone - but I need the support and prayers of my parents and siblings.

So - how did all of you tell the family?

I felt like I had no choice. At one point with the IVF, I had to stay at there house for a couple of days due to commuting issues. I told them about a few months before we started the process and my sister as well who is a nurse. She may have had to give me injections if my husband was not available all the time. We told his mother two days before the ET. He was upset that my parents knew and not his. Besides these family members, Three of my friends new and they were the ones who helped me when I was stressing about why I wasnt getting pregnant and they encouraged me to see someone, so I just kept them updated.
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