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Hey Regina I am so sorry that AF showed her ugly head. I'm glad at your positive attitude and Sarah is right it isn't the end it's the beginning of a whole new cycle.
Sarah How is it going with you? Anything new?
Ladies I need some advice, badly. I am extermely upset with hubby. As you know we just moved to a house so our monthly payments have doubled from the rent we use to pay and while we have everything we need & some stuff we want we are supposed to be saving. We need an emergency fund (our last one was wiped out with the move), we have to save for 2 new cars (we both drive to work and there isn't any public transportation to either location & both are close to thier last legs hubby's more so) plus if we do get preggs I could be put on bed rest early on again so I won't be able to work. Anyway today I go to this car for something and I see all these wrappers and bags and containers from all these fast food places. So here I am scrimping and savings every dime. I made a budget and have stuck to it. I bring my own lunch to work everyday, I shop with coupons and only buy essential stuff, I use to go to the salons every 2 weeks now I only go when I make extra money that week (so usually about every 6-8 weeks, if that). I am soooo angry at him for this. I'm doing without while he isn't. I have been wanting chinese food for dinner for the longest but didn't want to spend the money when we have food here. Oh hubby also got a cell phone ticket last week and was saying he didn't have the money to pay it so we had a few extra bucks in our account and I told him to use that money (although I wanted to save it since I will out of work a whole week when Tristan has his surgery). I have no idea how to approach him about this since I am so mad. I'm not good at confrontations (I'm latin I have a quick fuse lol & usually don't censor what I say when I'm mad) so how do you think I should handle this?? Sorry for the long post & for going on like this.
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