[BabySteps]

Wow this is a tough one. I used donor eggs and my DH and I are extremely happy and feel blessed to have the opportunity to become parents this way. It is something both parents have to accept and feel comfortable doing. If you are dead set against it and your DH will divorce you if you don't ~ well then you have some issues that need to be addressed. Have you talked to a doctor about using donor eggs? Are you at all open to learning more about it? There are quite a few on this board who have decided to go that way with our ivf journey. There is lots of support here for you. I hope that something works out for you and your marriage survives.

I am sorry that you find yourself in this situation and that your previous IVF cycles did not work.