Stephanie i am so sorry to hear it didn't work
. But yes I am in the same boat. Except it is kind of waiting and paying off bills mode. We cant even really focus on IVF saving until we get some of these med/credit card bills paid off. I am also looking for fertility treatment friendly employers. It would definitely be great to share some ideas. I am also going to try some alternative therapies for TTC this summer. I know a few people on here have had success with royal jelly. So I will be looking into that as well. Good luck and I hope while your saving money you get a surprise and all that money can go to an extra long maternity leave. Good luck girl!!!!!!!!!!!!