Men just aren't outwardly sensitive in general. He's probably having a hard time dealing with the disappointment too and doesn't know how to show it. My dogs have had LOTS of tears shed on them too. That's why we have each other on the boards to lean on. Just give it some time, you don't have to rush into the FET just yet, just know that they are there when you are ready. It's such an emotional roller coaster we are on. But I also think you should hold out a little hope still till Tuesday...cautiously optimistic is what I call it. You never know what the future holds. Wish I could give you a hug honey...guess this will have to do...
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