[johnette93]

We are just starting to look into the possibility of domestic adoption due to both male and female fertility issues (hooray!). We are already worried that we will have a long wait because we have a bio child already. But then I noticed something in all the profiles I have seen of couples with bio or adopted kids- all of the moms stay at home. Unfortunately, I can't now. I have to work 4 days a week for us to survive. I probably would stop working if I had another child since that would make child care costs/pay a total wash for me.

Does having to work outside the home just add up to another strike against me? Any thoughts on this?

Thanks,

Erin