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Old 03-19-2006, 06:30 AM
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Heart New Here. Husband just doesn't understand.

Hi! This site wasn't easy to find. I have checked out other sites and this one is by far the best, well organized and accessible. I recently started on the Idreamofbaby forum but it got to fustrating to post b/c the server was always busy. I do like this one.

I find these forums comforting as knowing there is someone else out there going through this, and that I'm not the only only totally confused, and feeling these emotions. My husband just doesn't get it. He thinks it's as easy as having sex and then we get pregnant.


Looking forward to everyone's wisdom.
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Old 03-19-2006, 09:20 AM
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Hey! Glad you're here. I'm new here as well. I just joined today and saw your post. How long have you been TTC? My husband was that way at first, he thought I was crazy when I started charting. I had an ECT in May 2005, and after that I became really obsessed with TTC. I let it take over my life. So then in September i decided to stop, take a break, enjoy being married and life. Well, here I am in March TTC again, only this time I am taking it slow. I started charting again this month. Only now my husband understands that we are going to have trouble getting pg. He wants to see a specialist, he thinks if we do IVF we will magically get pg. But we don't have the money and it may not happen anyway. So, I am going to try to get on clomid, or something like that first. Do you chart your BBT and stuff? Please let me know, I would love to have a cycle buddy. I don't know how much I can help, but if I can I will be glad to. Good Luck TTC, and good luck with your DH.
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Old 03-19-2006, 10:28 AM
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It is great that there are so many kind and understanding people on this board. I'm amazed by how considerate and wonderful everyone is. I'm glad you found us so that we can all be a sisterhood of sorts, trying to figure out what our best ways to have a child are.

Much luck to you and I hope your stay here is very, very short!
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