[MrsBiff]

So, heres my story.

I've been dealing with depression for quite sometime. Back in high school is when it started. Well, my hubby and I have been TTC for about 16 months now. Of course, not getting pg has added to my depression. It has gotten about 10 times worse. I have panic attacks when i see pg women. Seriously, i cant go shopping, or go anywhere anymore...

here is my problem:: Should I go to a DR and getting on some anti depressants?? I know that they will make it harder for me to get pg. My depression was under control before i got so upset about not getting pg right away. so could the depression be so bad from the TTC, and should i try to get on fertility drugs??

i have been avoiding going to a dr about my depression because i was scared about getting on antidepressants and not getting pg because of them, but what if im not getting pg because of my depression...i am so confused about this.

[jencat215]

MrsBiff-

You should definitely go to your Dr. right away and let them know about your depression. Depression is serious. There are medications that you can take that are safe while TTC. Getting pg will not take away your depression. You need to take care of yourself first.

Good luck to you

[piffy]

My ob/gyn is the one that PUT me on anti-depressants. There are some that are considered safe. I took it a year and it helped a lot. I am no longer on meds but glad they were there when I needed them.

[jenedens6102]

I'd definitely recommend seeing a doctor for your depression. There are some anti-depressants that while trying to conceive as well as while you are pregnant. I know that it can be difficult to face other pregnant women, especially after so much time goes by.

[Stacey4iu]

I think depression has been a part of many of our lives...even if we didn't have trouble before dealing with infertility, this path we're on can really bring us down. I would say that going to the doctor is a good idea. They can help you decide what is best for you.