[becky928]

I need you all!
my friend is pregnant and i love her to death...but i get sooooo emotional when I talk to her, its like im mad? Its not fair! And I am older than her and I think when is it my turn....she knows I have problems but she is always talking pregnany....and while i am happy for her...sometimes i just cant take it anymore and i feel soooo alone....

[chantalTTC]

We've all been there...it's frustrating for sure. Have you told her how you feel and that you just may not have it in you to be as excited as you would like to be?

[cathie]

HEY THERE !
We are in the same boat ! I have three women that are PG and I try to avoid them because they make some stupid coment ( you are not PG yet ) and them they wiggle my belly ! Like if they are rubbing it in ! So I here for you us IF & TTC women have to stick together !

[babyplz]

Know how u feel- both my BF are - U are not alone!

[scrappyqban]

I know exactly how you feel. I am the last one in my group. All my friends have kids. I recently wasn't invited to my friends daughters first birthday because she thought it would be too hard on me. Yet, she dragged me out of the house to take pics of her daughter when my husband was having chemo.. Go figure!

[gemdandy420]

We all know how you feel, friends that just think pg and they are, others who aren't trying and get pg, and then those who don't even want kids and get pg. It is very frustrating and emtional hard and no one understands but us ladies who are going through this. We are all here for you, so just vent it out, you'll feel better afterwards.

Gloria

[frymomma2b]

I know where you are at sweety i am there with you. My best friends wife is prego and my neighbor and she is my friend and i guess i am her only one because she has to tell me every little thing that happens and i bet you feel the same way i do...somewhere between being happy for them and wanting to strangle them. It is hard to be happy for someone that is getting what you desire. Even worse when they are not even wanting it or prepared for it.I think it is evil trying to come in and corrupt us when we are trying to stay positive. I know God is testing us but dang there is only so much testing you can take before you snap. My suggestion is only talk to her when you feel like dealing with it. otherwise find something else to do or avoid calls because i have told a friend before how i felt right after i m/c in July and she got prego and told me two weeks later. Needless to say we are no longer friends because she hurt me unknowingly and i hurt her vindictively< sp? So when you dont feel like being supportive to her just dont talk to her that day.