[sckooshy1]

I have a daughter who is almost 5yrs old. I tried for
a year to have another child about 2 years ago now,
and suffered miscarriages. Well, in January, my
husband and I were going to try again, but I got
scared about getting school done and told him we
should wait. And he agreed. Well, at the rate I'm
going, it's going to be about 4 years until i get done
with school, and all though we don't make the greatest
living, i really want another child now. And my
husband is still on the idea we should comtinue to
wait. He wants me to make money NOW. He gets
frustrated when I tell him how much longer it will
take me to finish school.
Can someone please let help me figure out what I should do. Please.

[TylersMom]

I am in the same position myself. My son is 8 and my husband and I have been trying to conceive a second child for over a year. I am working full time, going to school 6 hours a week plus homework and I'm heavily involved with the Youth Association my son plays sports for. Although I am dedicated to having another child, my husband often goes back and forth about the issue. We aren't especially well to do either and my education will take several more years. Sometimes I feel that he doesn't want it as bad as I do. I know this isn't exactly advice, but you aren't alone. Personally, since fertility becomes more of an issue the older you become, I think you should go for it now. I have a pregnant woman in my class right now and she has a daughter as well. There is no time like the present!