[Soki]

...and NO, I don't mean "and then you'll get pregnant."

Despite what every busybody has to say about your treatment regime, eliminating stress, taking a vacation or just "stop trying" won't solve any fertility issues you aren't already aware of.

There are very few factors that stress directly effects regarding infertility. One of them is your poor hubby feeling the need to perform on demand. Stress is not erection inducing. The other is the potential to disrupt the woman's ovulation cycle. If you've gotten even a few steps into the world of fertility treatment, you'd be quite aware of when you are ovulating.

So.... Don't feel bad that you can't relax. Stress is a symptom of infertility treatments, not the cause!

You SHOULD, however, take that Carribean cruise because you just plain want to, no strings attached.

Stories of women going through every treatment then conceiving naturally while on a European tour are the RARE exception, not the rule.