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Old 10-21-2008, 04:05 PM
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Hi! after 4 failed IVF cycles we are moving to domestic infant adoption. WHEW!! There is SO much information out there!!
I have some agencies that I have contacted but I would appreciate if anyone could PM me if they had success with these agencies.
We are in Dallas, Tx and I would prefer a much smaller agency but I am ready to get this ball rolling so I can be on the "waiting list"
I would really appreciate any advice.

LDS- dallas Office
CASI
Adoption Advisory
Adoption Angels

Also- what is the average wait time to hear back from an agency. I have called on private lawyer in PA twice and have not got a call back, Called Adoption Advisory and was told they were short staff but someone would call me in a week. Have put in requests in a bunch of other agencies/lawyers and have not heard back. Maybe I am expecting to much but I feel SO good about this decision that I want to move forward.

Thanks again!
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Old 10-21-2008, 07:10 PM
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Sarah,

You might wanna check my blog out. We have our first meeting for our home study this Friday - so we are in the very early stages.

I too had a hard time getting people to call me back.

Might I recommend calling your local Jewish Family Services Center? This is where you can start with your home study and they can help you with other things beyond that.

We went to a free seminar they were offering and the women there were all just so nice. They aren't a baby factory, they seem to want to help babies find families and families find baby.

I also called the Catholic Family Services and the Lutheran Family Services but never heard back from either. All of these will help no matter what your religion.

Please feel free to PM me, email me and/or check out my blog listed below.

There IS a lot of info out there and one reason I started my blog was to help others and save others some leg work.

Best of luck to you on your journey Sarah.

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2001-2005 "unexplained IF," countless failed clomid cycles

02.14.05 miscarriage
09.17.05 miscarriage
11.07.05 PCOS diagnosed (2000 Metformin ER)
05.29.06 IUI #1 - failed
06.23.06 IUI #2 - failed
10.06.06 NI + follistim #4 - failed
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11.22.06 BFP
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11.2007 low ovarian reserve
01.2008 TTC au natural still...

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08.2008 hoping to adopt (domestic newborn)

10.24.08 1st home study meeting
11.14.08 2nd home study meeting (the dreaded home visit)
11.21.08 meeting with adoption attorney
12.05.08 3rd home study meeting
12.24.08 received finalized Home Study report!
waiting to be matched...


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Old 10-21-2008, 07:22 PM
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Dallas Jewish Family Services

hope this helps and I'm not overstepping.

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me 44, DH 35
08.2000 started TTC
2001-2005 "unexplained IF," countless failed clomid cycles

02.14.05 miscarriage
09.17.05 miscarriage
11.07.05 PCOS diagnosed (2000 Metformin ER)
05.29.06 IUI #1 - failed
06.23.06 IUI #2 - failed
10.06.06 NI + follistim #4 - failed
end of treatment
TTC au natural...

11.22.06 BFP
12.20.06 cornual pregnancy ended @ 9 weeks (miscarriage)
02.06.07 ok to TTC again
11.2007 low ovarian reserve
01.2008 TTC au natural still...

........

08.2008 hoping to adopt (domestic newborn)

10.24.08 1st home study meeting
11.14.08 2nd home study meeting (the dreaded home visit)
11.21.08 meeting with adoption attorney
12.05.08 3rd home study meeting
12.24.08 received finalized Home Study report!
waiting to be matched...


A Family is Born: adoption blog

infertility reality blog

.......

Hope gets us to the bridge, faith will get us across. ~ my friend’s grandma
I have been pregnant, I WILL have a baby! ~ Julie

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Old 10-25-2008, 09:24 PM
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When I researched, I wanted a smaller agency also. I called probably 10 agencies and got information from all of them. I put my name on three wait lists and am actually working with two of them together. They work together and I didn't know it until I signed with one of them.

Good luck with whatever you decide to do.
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