[Kit-Kat30]

I thought that finding out that my BF was pg was going to be the most difficult thing that I would need to deal with emotionally. I was wrong.

We are going through another round and have a new doctor. We have been going through councelling with our church, so our previous doc waived the psych exam. This doctor still had it on our work up and we were in the between of finding out if the councelling through our church would suffice.

So by BF asked how our first visit was. I explained the situation and she had the audacity to say, maybe it is for the best and a sign that we need phsycriatric help to work through our "problems".

She was ttc for 2 years and it happened for them naturally. I am very happy for them, but how soon they forget how much it hurts to be part of the IF crowd.

Thanks for letting me vent. It needs to come out, but I value her friendship too much to tell her exactly how her words make me feel.

[energizer]

Grrrrrr. I'm sure your friend was just trying to be supportive, but that was definitely not helpful for you. I find myself becoming ever more sensitive to other peoples' comments. I almost completely avoid the topic of pregnancy, especially with friends who are pregnant now or who have had 1-2 children in the time that we have been ttc. I've also found that my friends with kids don't call me so much anymore, so my approach hasn't worked too well for me. I guess I don't have any great advice, just wanted to let you know that someone else knows how you're feeling and how frustrating it can be. We just have to try to stay positive, despite the insensitive pg women we talk to.