[anirtak]

Well ladies,
It seems that everyone around me are getting pregnant. I found out 3 weeks ago that my 18 year old cousin is pregnant from some random guy and now I just found out the my aunt who is in your 40s (hope to those of you who are in your 40s) is pregnant. I am happy for her because she has need trying just as long as I have but at the same time it hurts. Why is God letting everyone else get pregant?? To make things worse my aunt has called me four times tonight. I was not home to get the calls but she did leave one message for me. What does she want to say to me???? I know she doesn't want to hurt me but there is NOTHING that she can say to make me feel better. I was fortunate to get home too late to call her back because I really do not want to talk to her!?!?!?!?!?!?!?! Thanks for listening to me vent!

[frycx]

I know that is tough. Some people just don't know how to react to infertility and so they usually do the wrong thing. As you said you know your aunt probably means well, but talk when your ready. When you are ready, you will find the right words and very soon get your own BFP. At least that is what I keep telling myself when everyone around me pops up prego. Sounds like you are on the right track. Take care.

[mnwilkes]

I understand how you feel I keep getting news about friends/family being pregnant. Every single time I wonder why it's not me. I agree though, talk when you're ready. Hopefully people will understand how you're feeling and give you time if you need it.

[MIRANDA12503]

I think each and everyone of us can relete to the everyone is pregnant feelings.
Somedays I feel like pregnant women are parading around it front of me taunting. I find myself asking god for strenth after each and every encounter.

I pray that we all will one day get to march in the pregnant parade

Miranda

[Lyss]

Honey I feel you.. I have been acquaintances with these two girls since middle school... both of them got pregnant their senior year in HS and one dropped out and the other one is with a convicted felon who had his first three kids taken away from him...

They are now both pregnant with number two...and I'm the one who can financially support a second child and emotionally support a second child in a loving relationship..

I feel your pain totally...

[nedege24]

Well my brother 1 year older than i am had 4 kids in 5 years and his wife is about 4 years younger that me so you can understand why i know how you feel

[iwanabamama]

I think we all know how you feel. I just found out yesterday one of my girlfriends is having her 3rd child and it's gonna be a boy. It's hard because it does hurt but still want to be happy for others. I agree with Cynthia when you are ready to talk than you'll probably have some thing nice to say.

You take care all of us are here for you. Try stay postive and your day will come too.

(((HUGS))),
Sandy

[mkeller2]

Wow, I am so glad that other people think the way that I do. Everyone around me is pregnant too, I am happy for them but it's depressing! Sometimes I just want to crawl in a hole and die. I think that's where my stress comes from. Does anyone have any good suggestions on how to reduce stress????

[muddysage]

I know how you feel, tears of joy for them tears of frustration for you. I just found out about another prego friend. I test in 4 more days. I hope to join her.

[elleb]

Ugh! All my friends are pregnant or just had a baby. We've been trying almost 18 months and a single friend of mine decided to confide in me, even though she knows my situation. that she is afraid she might be pregnant. How is that supposed to feel? One of my oldest friends got pregnant the month she got off the pill and I can't even be happy for her, which makes me feel awful, but I can't help it. My husband and I are taking a forced break right now because I developed a cyst after one failed follistim/IUI cycle. I don't know if I can deal with one more pregnant friend; I don't even want to go to the showers. Thanks for letting me vent!

[CynthiaG]

I know how you feel. I found out three people were pregnant in a two week span. A good friend, and two people from work. One even said they weren't really trying. It was very tough for me, I'd come home and cry.