[Tinkerbell13]

andi,

it's so hard sometimes specially when you heard this from friends who don't even want a baby.... but have we got the choice?
afriend of mine have an abortion while i was trying so hard to have a baby.... it was hard to conceive but that's the way it was...
You were right to let it go here, i think it's a natural feeling in our situation

good luck, keep the faith

[MSUamber]

Reading this thread is what triggered me to join today. It seems for me as well that every week someone else I know is pregnant. I am happy for them all but the first week or two after hearing the news I'm upset. A close family friend recently found out she was pregnant, her and her DH decided to give it two months - if she wasn't pregnant they were going to stop trying. They got what they wanted right away. I was angry then sad - now I'm happy for her, but still going through the constant roller coaster of emotions everytime someone gets pregnant is hard to deal with.

My family couldn't understand why I reacted that way and told me to "get over it". I'm so glad I'm not alone in the way I feel. What a huge relief.

[Andi]

I think it is hard for anyone to understand if they haven't been through it. I am sorry that your family is being insensitive but I would bet it is lack of understanding. I am so glad that you have found this forum because it is so supportive and loving and you don't feel so alone. Keep your head up. It is amazing when you want a baby so badly and so many people around you are conceiving so easily. Sending . Good Luck!