[MrsBiff]

so i figured, since its the holidays, and we were invited to my BIL's for thanksgiving, i should tell him why I wouldnt be around. I explained that DH and I had been TTC for 17 mos, and it had been hard on me. And i told him about his wife saying that everytime she wanted a baby, she got pg. i figured he would be understanding like his mom.

but i got a message just now saying that he didnt think i was ready because i wasnt acting very maturely.

this coming from a man who is expecting his third child in less than 5 years. he doesnt understand. they've never had a problem getting pg.

its not about maturity. its about me having panic attacks when i see pregnant women. its about the depression that i have been dealing with. its about how hard this has been on me and my marriage. this has completely beat me down. i feel like a dog being punished for something i didnt do.

[blessusw/baby]

I feel you. I just MC (2nd one) 10 days ago and went home for thanksgiving where my brothers, sister-in-law, and twin nieces. I played with them then after a little while couldn't hold them/play etc. just wanted to cry. They don't know that I just MC again so would just have to excuse myself...totally sucked. Then today I was talking to one of my close friends who is well aware that I just MC and she went on and on about her pregnancy and people at her work that are pregnant and I had to ask her to stop as I couldn't stop crying. How do people not thing? People have no empathy! Serioulsy, YOU not being mature? ..really..get a hold of yourself, dear BIL!