[kclark615]

Hi to all! I am new to this community.

Here is my problem, I am 22, married to a 38 yr old with 2 children from a previous marriage. The kids are 17 &18. I have been ttc for 20 mos.
Ok. the daughter is the 18 yr old, she has been pregnant 3 times in the last year. 1st miscarriage due to fighting, 2nd abortion, and 3rd she is carrying to term. This is a huge part of my problem, but most definantly not all. Lots of other problems with the kids going back to our wedding day. I feel like I am always going to have to live for his kids mistakes. They are not even mine. I am considering leaving this marriage due to this and many other things. Any feedback would be appreciated! Thanks

[jerrick.dale]

You are still young and life is too short to have to worry about other grown people. I am not being judgemental, but your husban'ds kids and you are almost the same age. You may always bump head if that's the problem.

[kclark615]

We do and its tough. They are both out of the house but i have a feeling being as unstable as they are , not for long.