[NGee]

My sister is 31 and Pregnant with her 4th. The three she has are all 4 and under. I am 24 and we have been trying for 3 years. I cant help but wonder why not me? I love my sister more than anything and I am so happy for her. Sometimes I just cant talk to her about her pregnancy. She is only about 9 weeks and I want so bad for us to experience this together. Right now I will just continue to be the best auntie ever!

[anirtak]

Hang in there! It is hard. Last year I was in the same position as you. My younger sister has two children from a previous marriage. She remarried in April 07 and got pregnant her first cycle after her wedding. At that point DH and I had been married for 3 years and TTC for 2 1/2 years. I was happy for her but it was so hard to be around her and talk about her pregnancy when it was something that I wanted to badly and had been stuggling for and it happened so easliy for her. I was upfront with her and told her how I felt and tried to make her understand how I was feeling. It didn't go over like I had hoped. For the next nine months we talked but not as much as we used to...we grew apart alittle. Now we are as good as new and it is like nothing was ever between us. If you need someone to talk to, I am here for you!

[NGee]

Thank you!