[nlyday]

So discouraged...got the beta in today and of course a ...i am really starting to get to a point of blah..u know...just totally tired..emotionally, physically, mentally....i will be starting clomid next month. so that is awesome...but i just wished i could have done this on my own naturally...my husband is supportive...but he is getting tired too...how do u keep each others spirits up when u r feeling down yourself????

[dndtaylor]

Hey Chica! I know what you mean about all the bad news and it never seems like anything is getting better. It is sad but in the IF world it seems that the bad days out weigh the good ones? It does suck ... BUT we have to keep thinking positive and hoping for the best. Believe me, it is hard and sometimes I just wonder or think; why bother, maybe I'm not meant to be a mom. But I know deep down that isn't the way I truly feel nor is it the way that I want it to be. So then I keep smiling and thinking ahead, and staying positive. The one thing that I have learned is to take this journey 1 day at a time. Maybe you and DH should take a trip, have a date, just talk about your IF. It seems to help when DH and I talk about it and it is said outloud why we are actually still trying, just a bit reassuring I think. Keep pushing on and know that we are here for ya anytime, day or night. Keep smiling and soon your days will get better, promise. Hugs!

[nlyday]

THANKS ALOT! THE BAD DAYS DO SEEM TO OUTWAY THE GOOD ONES FOR SURE...AND I AM SO TRYING TO KEEP MY HEAD UP...I KNOW I WILL IT IS JUST A LONG PROCESS..AND EVERYTHING HAS TO BE JUST RIGHT!!! WE ARENT DOING TO HORRIBLE AT ALL, BUT I THINK BC I AM THE ONE WAITING TO GET PREGO...HE DOESNT FEEL AS INVLOVED..DOES THAT MAKE SENSE?? I DONT KNOW HOW TO MAKE HIM FEEL MORE INVOLVED...W/O HIM NO BABY...AND NO FAMILY...BUT IT SEEMS THAT SOMETIMES HE DOESNT SEEM TO FEEL IT THAT WAY....I DONT KNOW..MABYE I AM CRAZY..I JUST DONT WANT HIM HURT EITHER...WE ARE PUSHING ALONG..ONE DAY AT A TIME...

[jencat215]

Natalie- I know how you feel. DH keeps asking me if I am okay or if I need anything. I feel like I want to scream. No, I am not okay. Yeah, I need to be ! He only feels the real pain during the time of . We, as women, feel it all month long. Sigh. Talking about it helps, but maybe taking a little time together, to get your mind off things, might do you some good? I know I could sure use that soon!

[Kellileanne]

You were blessed once so hopefully you will be blessed again--what I mean is that you know it is possible, know you are in my prayers to have your second blessing come along very soon!!!

[ctolle1073]

I know exactly how you feel, but all you can do is try to think positive thoughts and know one day you will be that mother you always dreamed about. I know how hard it is to be positive I have had 2 failed IUI's but I am trying invitro this jun I took 2 months off my treatment will begin again the first part of June and God willing the invitro will take . So keep your Chin up and keep smiling and take things day by day.