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02-20-2008, 03:04 PM
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Niki I am so so sad to hear your news. I cry for you and your family. I will keep you in my thoughts and prayers and think of you daily. I know you are strong and your faith will carry you on to your dream. So sorry hun.
Miranda
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 Me- 31 PCOS (metformin) & blood disorder DH- 31 My Perfect Super Hero with morphology issues 4months Cycles Clomid-failed 13 cycles IUI w/injections- failed 6 cycles with surrogate- failed 2 years- natural -failed *New RE* Anticardiolipin syndrome30mg Heparin injection daily. IUI #14 10/3 back to back IUI's with donor and DH sperm BFP! TWINS!!  myspace.com/MIRANDA12503 
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02-20-2008, 03:15 PM
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Oh Niki- I am so very sorry that this happened!!
I cannot tell you how my heart goes out to you and DH. I cannot imagine the terrible time you two are going through! Life is so very unfair at times, things like this make me so hurt and angry. Please know that we are always here for you and you are welcome to vent any time! Please stay in touch with us! 
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June Married 3+ years Me: PCOS (40), DH: obstructive azoospermia (32)  Neely- Our 75 lb Black Lab1st IVF cycle- 5/06 Cancelled 2' OHSS 2nd IVF cycle- 7/06 BFN 3rd IVF cycle- 9/06 cancelled 2' drop in E2 level 4th IVF cycle- 11/06 cancelled 2' poor response 5th IVF cycle- 2/07 Chemical pregnancy 6th IVF cycle- 9/07 Kerrin born 6/13/08 TTC #2 ER 1/31/09 - 9 eggs retrieved, 8 fertilized. ET 2/3/09 - 4 transferred. It's a BOY! Brendan due 10/24/09...  
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02-20-2008, 03:43 PM
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Oh, Niki-what a nightmare. I'm so sorry for your and DH's loss. You'll be in all of our thoughts and prayers.
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Katie Me (31)-Fine DH (34)-Paraplegic; low everything 9/21-ER (13 eggs retrieved) 9/26-ET (2 perfect embies transferred; 6 on ice) 10/5-Beta #1  240!!  10/7-Beta #2 425!! 10/25-U/S #1-1 little bean (h/b 124)  11/9-U/S #2-little bean doing perfectly (h/b 171) 11/14-1st OB visit!! Everything looks great 1/22-It's a GIRL! 5/27-dilated to less than 1 cm; effaced 25% 6/3-dilated to almost 1 cm; effaced 50% 6/10-dilated to 1-1/2 cm; effaced 60% 6/16-Welcome to the world Audrey Jane!  www.rountree-no-d.blogspot.com
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02-20-2008, 04:12 PM
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Nikki,
I am so so sad by reading your post! There are no words to make things better but know that the ladies here are here for you for anything you need. Take the time to grieve, and lean on any of us for support, if only over the WWW we are here and care! You are both in my thoughts and prayers!
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Meredith  37 me 36 DH ttc 3/03 5/04 mc 12 wks 11/04 mc 9 wks 6/05 mc 16 wks 4/06 mc 11 wks 10/29/07 BFP 11/1/07 dr apt 1 formed sac 11/29 30 mil lovonox injection twice daily 01/11/08 it's a BOY!!!! Jason Logan May 29th 2008 Hospitalized with baby stopped growing 3 weeks before ( IGFR Inuero Growth Fetal Retardation he stropped growing but is not mentally un-sound) June 2, 2008 HE IS HERE!!! 4 weeks early and perfectly beautiful!  http://www.myspace.com/mad4472 http://thedawesinseattle.blogspot.com/
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02-20-2008, 05:14 PM
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Oh Niki...
How devastating...I am soo soo sorry for your loss... I hope u keep up the positive attitude....Sending lots of prayers your family's way.. Hugs, Deepa
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Praying for my baby to be healthy and growing  IUI#3 ..worked! 10/3: IUI#3 10/17: beta 10206/14: Our Baby is here! ------------------------------------------------ 
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02-20-2008, 06:32 PM
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Niki, I cannot even imagine the pain and grief that you and your DH are experiencing right now. I feel so sad for your whole family. Life is not fair sometimes. Please be sure to take care of yourself during this immensely difficult time. I will keep your family in my prayers.
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~Amy Me: 29 DX: PCOS, hypothyroid DH: 27 - Perfect! Kitty babies: Zeus & Ceres TTC #1 since 12/05 4/15/07: !!!4/28/07: Little Angel lost to chemical pregnancy at 5w6d  Menopur 10/18/07: HPT Beta at 10dpo: 30 10/22/07: Beta #2... 343!!! Born on her due date (6/30/08) at 9:10 pm! Welcome Anna Faith!! 6 lbs. 14 oz., 20" long   5/22/09: SURPRISE!! 5/26/09: u/s showed a yolk sac and measured at 5w1d 5/26/09: progesterone was only 8.1 5/29/09: Beta #1... 7,133!! progesterone... 6.4 6/1/09: Beta #2... 14,379 and progesterone... 10.8 6/3/09: u/s showed one healthy little bean... HR: 112 bpm 6/10/09: u/s looked good! HR: 153 bpm 7/20/09: NT scan and 1st OB appt... Everything looks good! HR: 163 bpm 9/2/09: It's a BOY!! EDD: 1/25/10 
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02-20-2008, 07:36 PM
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Niki, I'm so sorry for your loss. You are so right when you say that no one can predict what will happen. There are no conclusive signs. I'm so glad you and your DH have made peace with what happened and you are looking forward. God Bless you and your family.
Meredith, I don't know what to say. I think a lot of us can relate to having difficult family members. Like Lacy, I came from an abusive home and found it really difficult to grapple with the decision to cut family members out of my life. But I am deeply religious and believe that when we enter into marriage, we are creating another family and that is what is important. We leave our parents and focus solely on the creation of our new family. I have totally cut out my parents from my life. They still try to get back in, but I just don't care/want/desire any drama for my life. It's not worth it. I even went to my bishop about it because I just felt so guilty now that I'm having a baby(babies!) and he basically told me that it was pleasing to God to raise the best family I knew how and it had nothing at all to do with my parents. It surprised me to hear it, but I understood my 'job' better. Lacy, you're so cute. I had a feeling your DH worked in O&G with all the countries he visits. My in-laws are in the O&G field as well. I know exactly what you mean by all the guys that are in that field. The ones that cheat don't have a hot smokin preggo wife waiting at home for them!  As for getting to the beach, you all are welcome to come over here anytime and squish your toes in the sand. Just don't think that the whole of Singapore looks like that. They've done so much reclamation that they destroyed nearly ALL their natural beaches and coral. The beach you saw me on was a man-made beach on a special tourist island(much smaller than singapore). Kinda like an amusement park with a beach. I gave my cold to my DH! He's really feeling it now, but it's a quick bug, so he'll feel better in a few days.
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02-20-2008, 08:08 PM
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Niki,
I am just now reading about your loss. I am so incredibly sorry.
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Me (33)- PCOS (met,bromo), Uterine Septum (repaired, hopefully) DH (35)- low Morph? great count/motility Cassius - fur monster (golden retriever)TTC #1 since 8-05 8/06 - Septum Resection 12/06 IUI #1 Clomid cd 3-7 BFN 2/07 IUI #2 Clomid cd 3-7/HCG trigger BFN 5/7/07 IUI #3 Clomid cd 3-7, Gonal-F 9-12,BFN 1-10-08 Uterine Septum surgery #2, RE said it worked, hope he is right. IUI#4 BFN IVF/ICSI #1 - 6-2-08 ER - 20 eggs, 11 mature - 10 fertilized. 6-7-08 ET - 2 blasts - snuggling in tight. 6-8-08 -freeze report - 5 snowblasts! 6-13-08 - + HPT 6,7,8 dp5dt - this is it.6-16-08 - Beta #233!, p4 175 6-19-08 - #720, p4 245 7-3-08 - 1st US - OMG - IT'S TRIPLETS! Three healthy heartbeats, Baby A & B measuring 6w2-3days, Baby C 6w1d 7-14-08 - 2nd U/S -Babies are all still on track! 8-15-08 - NT scan, babies are great. 9-8-08 - Anatomy Scan - THREE GIRLS!!!! 11-22-08 Hospital Bedrest 
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02-20-2008, 09:57 PM
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oh niki - i was screaming 'NO!' at my computer as i read your post ... i just can't believe it. i don't want to believe this has happened to you. sorry doesn't even begin to express how utterly sad i am for you and your dh and for what you've gone through. i am glad you have each other for comfort, and so glad that your faith will get you through this. my heart just hurts so much for you, i wish there was something we could do. please come on here and talk to us and let us know how you're doing. you've been such a wonderful support and friend to everyone on here. take care and know that you're in my prayers.
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Kristen Me - 35 (surgeries for cysts, fibroids and endometriosis) DH - no one has qualified for the job yet (au naturale) - 08/066 IUI's, feb 07-jul 07, bfn 1st IVF with ds ... ER 9/10, 9 eggs, ET 9/13 - 3 healthy embies transferred 9/21- beta #1, 8dp3dt, 34 9/24- beta #2 184 10/15- first u/s - saw my baby! HB is 133. 10/22- 2nd u/s- HB 163, measured perfect! 11/5 - 3rd u/s- HB 173... the picture, AMAZING! 11/15- 4th u/s- HB 165, omg i saw my baby moving around! 11/27- 1st ob appt- looks great! 11/28- NT screening 12/20- ultrasound. it's a boy! 01/04- my first 4-D ultrasound ... he is precious! 01/22- ob appt; my baby is size XL 02/19- right on track, measuring 26 weeks 04/28 - dilation has begun! 05/21... Simon Anders was born at 8 lbs 9 oz!!  
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02-21-2008, 01:17 AM
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my dear, dear friends,
thanks for those lovely messages of support and prayers. for it is yours, friends and family support; and ofcourse our belief that God definitely has better plans for us, that have made us stronger. you won't believe how strong our family and friends support system here in uganda! friends, friends and family flooded in to grieve with us. ofcourse with them, came stories of worse scenarios, which made us realize that we are still lucky people. others even cannot conceive! even if we're starting a new journey of FET, i will still be posting here to tell you our progress. plus, i can't afford to not know how you gals are doing b'se you've become part of my life. each day that passes, we become stronger. i have looked over the internet for similar miscarriage cases and possible causes and was surprised to see that there were many cases like mine - even worse. at least with me, everything happened so quickly i didn't have to endure physical pain for endless days! i know that amidst such disappointmemts, there're so many success stories and this makes us stronger and hopeful. i love a good laugh; i love smiling and i will keep on doing just that - for you gals and for my friends and family. so..lots of for you, for us all. we will soon smile thru' the tears of joy when we at last hold our babies in our arms.cheers gals. love u all.
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   ______________________________________ Me: 40 -No issues DH: 50 - Sperm factor Me: DD- 7 yrs conceived naturally June 2007 - IUI #1  Oct 17, 07 - Twins - boysFeb 16/08- 21 weeks May 08 - Natural FET #1 Oct 08 - IVF/ICSI #2 - cancelled Feb 09 - IVF/ICSI #3 Aug 2009 Conceived naturally with PRAYER, faith and love! Thank You Jesus!
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02-21-2008, 05:15 AM
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Niki- I am so sorry for your loss. You must be devastated. It sounds like you have a lot of faith in God and that is what will get you through this. You are in my thoughts.
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02-21-2008, 06:27 AM
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Niki I'm so sorry for your loss. I can't even find the words to express what I want to say.
Your family are in my prayers and thoughts.
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Sandy TTC#1 since 1995 ME - 39 - unexplained DH - 40 - fine Elevated FSH - respond poorly to meds ET - Oct.21st, 07 - 2 - 8 cell transferred - 8 to freeze HPT - Nov.3rd and 4th - Beta #1- Nov.5th - 3097 - EDD July 11th, 08 Anatomy scan - Feb.20th - Boy and Girl May 19,08 Adrian and Sofia are here Born @ 32 wks, 3 dys. FET in Oct/09 but barely - Chemical  FET in Nov/09 Nov. 17th - transferring 2 embies  Facebook addict Twinstuff.com forum - San12     
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02-21-2008, 06:46 AM
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Niki, I am so sorry for your loss...I just can't imagine having to go through this. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your DH. You seem like a very strong person who has anchored her strength in God and I just admire that. Stay strong.
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Connie Me: 29 - no issues DH: 40 - vasectomy; 2 biological children from previous marriage 1st IVF w/ ICSI: 11/1 ER date 11/1 11 eggs retrieved 11/2 10 mature eggs, 10 eggs fertilized 11/4 ET - 2 embies transferred/no embies to freeze 11/15 1st beta - 157!!! 11/17 2nd beta - 401 - It's still a 12/4 8 AM - 1st U/S !!! - saw one sac: HB 126 12/17 9 AM - 1st OB appointment - 2nd u/s 1/14/08 - 2nd OB appointment - got another u/s 2/12/08 - 3rd OB appointment 3/5/08 - 8 AM - IT'S A BOY 3/12/08 - high risk OB u/s to check Choroid Plexus Cysts, the cyst is dissolving 3/26/08 - 4th OB appointment at 22w6d - all is well, measured 24 weeks 4/19/08 - 1st 3D u/s 4/29/08 - 5th OB appointment at 27w5d 5/15/08 - 2nd 3D u/s 5/27/08 - 6th OB appointment at 31w5d EDD: 24 July 2008 Maximilian Atlee born on 18 June 2008 at 2:30 PM  
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02-21-2008, 09:22 AM
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niki, i just think you have the most amazing positive spirit. you are so strong and i'm happy that you're surrounded by as much support as you are. i am glad to hear that you're going to do an FET and i plan to form a personal cheering squad just to follow you through your next cycle ... you will always be a part of this group and someone very special. after my m/c almost two years ago, my mom told me that God has a special place in heaven for little babies who didn't make it... and i really believe that. are you feeling okay physically? i hope so ... take care of yourself -
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Kristen Me - 35 (surgeries for cysts, fibroids and endometriosis) DH - no one has qualified for the job yet (au naturale) - 08/066 IUI's, feb 07-jul 07, bfn 1st IVF with ds ... ER 9/10, 9 eggs, ET 9/13 - 3 healthy embies transferred 9/21- beta #1, 8dp3dt, 34 9/24- beta #2 184 10/15- first u/s - saw my baby! HB is 133. 10/22- 2nd u/s- HB 163, measured perfect! 11/5 - 3rd u/s- HB 173... the picture, AMAZING! 11/15- 4th u/s- HB 165, omg i saw my baby moving around! 11/27- 1st ob appt- looks great! 11/28- NT screening 12/20- ultrasound. it's a boy! 01/04- my first 4-D ultrasound ... he is precious! 01/22- ob appt; my baby is size XL 02/19- right on track, measuring 26 weeks 04/28 - dilation has begun! 05/21... Simon Anders was born at 8 lbs 9 oz!!
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