[abeaty]

I am having a really hard time at the moment, one of my very good friends, i just found out is pregnant! She already has 2 beautiful boys, and we are still looking for answers! It is so discouraging and after trying for nearly 2 years with no luck, sometimes i just feel like letting myself slip into depression. I really want to be happy for her, but Im having a tough time coping with her news! I don't know what to do and there's no one to talk to! I could use some help from someone who understands!!

[Melster]

I have moved around alot and really only keep in touch w/ a few people via internet/phone a school freind has had 2 since 07 and our last online chat about me still trying left me irrated like she was rubbing it my face that she was " a fertile mrtyle"
many people that don't have a hard time simply don't understand and say the wring things
Im an only child(oldest grandchild) and my younger cousins early-mid 20s have 2 each and my dads gf's son under 30 had one in feb bought gifts havent sent yet im really sick of buying the gifts i can't keep up anymore plus i have found myself keeping some of the stuff or buying unisex outfits for the future..

[fuzzykitten]

abeaty,

I totally know how you feel. You're not alone.

I found out the day my IVF failed that a friend of mine was due any day with her 2nd kid, and she had broken up a marriage with her first pg and the guy married her. The ex-wife didn't have kids, so it feels like a slap on the face.

Then, DH's friends had a baby, and I picked out the cutest outfit (just to be polite) for their newborn to the point that his friends couldn't even tell that we were ttc. His friend actually said to him, "hey, I think your wife might be hinting she wants a baby". Ya think?!

It seems that all I do is get gifts for super fertile people.

Melster, I bought several baby outfits 5 years ago, not knowing the journey would be so long. Should've just donated them.